BDSM practices are fast moving from the old dungeon guard community to the middle class. Wearing a collar has a strong significance just as much as a wedding ring. Worn around the neck in public and private, with or without a leash attached or a rope. Collars signify to others that he or she is “owned”. Our selection of collars and leashes come in many colors and materials. They are used for role playing games which involve erotic humiliation, control, pet like or slave status. They can be worn loose or tight. If you are looking for a snug fit, measure the circumference of your neck and add 2cm. It's a good idea for beginners to start with the velcro option to get used to the feeling of having it around the neck. To complete the look, go for the popular Steamy Shades collar with matching leash & nipple clamps.